The Power of Words
The things we say to kids can either build them up, or destroy their self-esteem. Take a look at the list and try to use the one-liners that build.
One-liners that Build
- I’m proud of you.
- Way to go!
- What do you think?
- Good job!
- I know you can do it.
- I’m glad you’re my kid.
- Thank you.
- I believe in you.
- Do you want to tell me about it?
- You’re very important to me.
- You must have worked hard.
- You make me smile
- I love you.
One-liners that Destroy
- What is the matter with you?
- Can’t you ever listen to me?
- You did that wrong.
- How many times do I have to tell you?
- Go away, you’re being a pest.
- Why can’t you be more like your brother?
- You are so lazy.
- Shut up.
- You make me so mad.
- You AWLAYS. . .
- You NEVER. . .
- It’s all your fault
Adapted from National Parent Information Network, Elizabeth Pantley, author of Kid Cooperation and Perfect Parenting